Somebody’s Shoulders

The day after Salix passed, we left lots of room for autonomous pursuits so that everyone could choose their way of creating space for grief.

I provided a bit of direction–the making of ice cream; reminding folks to eat by clicking on yellow hunger meters; helping Sugar plan, host, and complete a gold-medal dinner party–but for the most part, the Bough family members chose what to do that day.

Early in the morning, as a special treat, Sugar and I whipped up a batch of ice cream.

“Who said you can have ice cream for breakfast?” Red asked.

“Dad did, right, Dad?” Alder replied.

“Sure thing,” said Nathanael. “You want some Little Bud?”

“No way! This chicken salty boca is yoom!”

Alder

That cone is almost bigger than Alder is.

onezero thought an ice cream cone made the perfect breakfast.

“Chocolate smells like an infinite time loop,” she said.

“How’s that?” asked Sugar.

“Neverendingly delicious!” onez replied.

onezero

Sugar is often looking straight at me these days.

Given free choice, Alder discovered that doing the dishes was his new most favorite activity.

Alder

“Lookit how that cup’s balanced . Think I can keep it from rolling?”

He found dishes all over the property.

Alder

“Man! I’m lucky I live with such sloppy people! I get to do this all day!”

It gives him a confident bounce in his step to know that he’s helping out.

“You’re the best dishes doer!” Red told him.

“Aw,” he said. “It’s fun!”

Redbud

Best Friends Forever

Seeing his niece and nephew together reminded Doug of when he, Tam, and onezero were kids, and how back then, their mom was always around.

Two days from elderspin, Doug is now the oldest family member–not in terms of actual number of days lived (Sugar holds that honor), but in terms of being next on Grim’s list.

This gives a guy a lot to think about.

He turned to painting to let his thoughts settle while he found the shapes to express what he felt inside.

“Mom would love this,” he said, as his picture began to take form.

Doug

What are you painting that makes you smile so wide?

He remembers his mom’s playful side, how she always had her crooked smile and twinkling eyes, as if she were forever laughing at some inner joke. When he thought of that part of her, he felt that she was nearby.

Doug

It’s going to be a tribute to his mom’s playful nature.

But when he wasn’t immersed in creative expression, he had a hard time.

He’d be an elder himself soon, he thought. Tam had bought herself a bit more time, through her pregnancy with the twins, and it made him feel even more forlorn knowing that he’d go through this final birthday alone. He thought of the white cup in his inventory–but why postpone the inevitable?

Doug

He spent a lot of time crying in bed on this autonomous day.

The twins watched their uncle, not sure what to make of this guy who walked with his head bent. He was usually the one to run up to them with a joke and a hug.

“Hey, Mr. Sargent Pepper guy,” Red said to the clay figure Doug sculpted earlier that day. “Tell my brother we gotta do something to cheer up Mom and Uncle Doug.”

“We most certainly need to do something,” said Mr. Sargent Pepper guy. “And something ingeniously, delightfully creative. And soon.”

“I can hear your squeaky voice when you talk for Mr. Pepper,” Alder said. “And besides. Your lips move.”

Redbud

“Aw. You’re no fun.”

Redbud spent most of her day running back and forth between the observatory and the play room, chasing inspiration.

Redbud

“I wonder where Mr. Freezer Bunny Cloud has gotten to now!”

“No, no, no, Mr. Stuff Nose,” she said to the big bear in the play room. “It’s not hopeless! There’s always a way. We can make Uncle Doug smile again. I just know it!”

Redbud

The bear really does have good ideas, if you know how to listen.

onezero has been helping out in all sorts of ways, even autonomously fixing the plumbing.

“My single mom would repair every broken thing in an instant,” she said. “It takes me longer, since this is my first time, but I’ll learn. It’s curious to see how water finds its way back home again.”

onezero

This is the first autonomous fixing of plumbing I’ve ever had in my game! Thanks, onez!

“Look at your face, brother!” she said when Doug sought her out for a hug that afternoon.

“I’ve been trying to smile,” he replied. “It doesn’t really stick.”

onezero

“I hardly recognize you without your smile, brother.”

But when onez wrapped him in a big hug, he didn’t have to try. His smile returned naturally.

Doug

onezero knows how to make him feel like it will all be ok.

Clarence dropped by in the evening.

“Can you play?” he asked Red.

“Haven’t you heard?” Red replied. “My grandma died. Everybody’s moping. If you want to hang around anyway, that’s ok. We can mope with the grown-ups, or we can play by ourselves. Your choice!”

Redbud

“Will they think I’ve got a pebble-heart if we play?”

Even though he didn’t have to do his homework, since he’ll be a teen before Monday, Alder pulled out the math book and pretended to be puzzled by the fractions.

Alder

“It’s so easy I can do this in my sleep.”

Sugar invited friends and neighbors for a dinner party. She needed to host it for her Master Chef aspiration, and it seemed, too, like the right time to share a meal in this kitchen that’s been the heart of the family for so many generations.

Alvaro, our red-headed entertainer friend, felt Salix’s absence keenly. She’d always had a kind word for him, and as a kindred romantic, they shared a natural affinity and an unspoken agreement about all that’s most important in this short life.

Alvaro

He remembered her dancing and joking–always keeping the mood light.

Over supper, onezero pulled the white cup out of her inventory. She had four days until her adult birthday rolled around again, but I guess, being touched so closely by Grim’s visit the night before, she wanted to be certain to forestall the day when the hooded one came for her.

onezero

“Leave it to onezero not to take any chances, right, Doug?”

They’ve seen so many deaths, these Sims at Cradle Rock. They know what it entails–the changes this final transformation brings.

onezero didn’t want anyone mourning for her. And she was in no hurry to leave her present form.

onezero

“Besides. It tastes smooth and delicious. Like life.”

She made a night of it. When I checked her mood panel, I saw she’d recently downed the inspiration potion that had been in her inventory, too. Then, she brought out the fun potion, which she drank outside with Red and Alvaro.

“We had a great day!” Red was saying. “My brother washed dishes, and I got inspired!”

onezero

“There’s no such thing as too much fun, little niece. Remember that!”

Tam, worn out from grief and a hard day at the art studio, took a nap when she got home from work. When she got up, she wondered why they even bothered. Why get dressed up for a party when all she and her brother wanted to do was hide from the world and cry?

Tam

“This is my first party without you, Mom.”

When the guests were saying their goodbyes, she sat in Sugar’s silent presence. Both women had so much to think about.

Tamarind

There’s something comforting about sharing quiet together.

Doug, too, has a lot on his mind. He’s got that cup of youth potion in his inventory. Yet his mom didn’t choose to drink her serving, not autonomously. She’d been given it once, before she became an adult. But she never chose to drink it, even though the white cup was there in her inventory the whole time.

He wasn’t sure what he’d do on his birthday. To spin or to drink. It was a tough decision.

Doug

“I’ve got a few days to decide.”

He molded the clay while he pondered, and when he saw what he’d sculpted, he laughed in spite of himself. It was that crazy Mr. Leggy Antennae Guy that his mom was always making when she felt playful.

“See, he’s right-side upside!” His mom said the first time she sculpted him for Doug. “Only you just can’t tell! Just like with you, son. You know which way’s up and which way’s down. It’s just that people can’t always tell that, just by looking at you.”

Doug

His mom always believed in and trusted him. He was going to miss that.

He couldn’t really tell if it helped to remember her and all the silly things she said. While he was remembering, it seemed like it helped. But then once he stepped out of the memory, he just missed her all the more.

Doug

“I wish she could have tasted ice cream.”

He won my heart that night, Doug did. There was nothing playful about him–he was sad through and through.

But he painted a playful painting. He sculpted the playful sculpture. He knows that it’s in remembering the happy part of somebody that you find that part of them that’s most alive within you.

Doug's painting

He’s right–Salix would love this silly llama painting.

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