We cannot figure out why Zuki was labelled “Category D.”
She is the cutest, funniest, sweetest little kid! She runs through the house whistling, chirping, and clicking, always with a crazy-wild grin. How could anyone thing this makes her a “difficult child”?
It seems so simple to me: Just follow what we learned in Early Childhood Development! The first thing we learned was Maslow’s Hierarcy of Needs: Food, water, warmth, rest.
We took care of that right away, easy-peasy! She loves milk, and we’ve been following the dietary guidelines we received for her, which is lots and lots of meat and seafood.
It’s a little tricky since we’re mostly veggie eaters, but Youssef has been grilling steaks, steaming oysters, clams, and mussels, and searing bass. She devours it!
Next comes security and safety. I’ve never before appreciated as much how quiet our home is–with no other houses on our street, we rarely get even a car driving by. It feels secluded and protected. The bricks muffle the noises of wind and weather, and we feel like cozy bears tucked in our den.
Why! Think of it! We’re on the third tier of the hierarchy already, intimate relationships and friends!
Zuki has bonded immediately with Meadow.
Confession Time: I wish she’d bonded that closely with me already!
But who wouldn’t bond with Meadow within an hour? She’s so calming to be around, with her sweet voice and her gentle ways. I know I’m a bit bouncier and louder, so it makes sense it takes longer with me.
Little Jena has fallen in love with her sister-cousin.
“Can I watch her sleep, Mom?” she asked the other night, after Meadow finished reading Zuki her good-night story.
Meadow and I both chuckled. “She’s not a kitty-cat!” I told Jena.
“No,” said Jena. “She’s more like a tiger cub. I don’t think a kitten would eat a whole steak!”
This is how Zuki wakes each morning: with a giant smile!
Meadow says even though she’s just a tot, we can start laying the groundwork for esteem needs and self-fulfillment needs.
“She’s not too young to begin feeling a sense of accomplishment!” Meadow says.
“Or creativity,” I remind us.
“Or mischief!” adds Jena.
I wonder if there even is such a thing as “Category D!” I have never met a difficult child, only difficult situations. Give a kid an environment that meets her needs, and you’ll have a delightful kid!
Of course, in my book, Zuki is simply Capital-D-delightful, ALL the time! Maybe that’s what “Category D” means! Delightful Child!